Shy???

Im shy but I don't like being shy is there anyway to come out of my shell?Shy???
Shy people cannot survive in todays world.Don't think that anyone is looking at you ,be confident that you are right and good.Even if you go wrong somebody will make fun of you but someone will help you.Always think that the world is yours and you wanna enjoy it.Do what you want slowly people around you will except the way you are.Unless you open up no one will understand you and leave you as you are.Any humorous remark passed on your comment ignore it or answer it confidently.You need to help yourself dear
when you speak with some one , imagine that one is your brother or your friend and you if you want to say some thing or to do some thing believe there is some one will do it before you or say it before you.
so be the farst and don't be shy.
try going out in groups of friends where you feel more comfortable then work yourself up to talking to others you dont know while out and about.
I'm 35 and I've been that way my whole life. It has gotten better though. Most people who are shy usually feel inferior to others and scared or at least that's how I felt. Don't worry so much about what people think. Once you stop worrying about 'saying the wrong thing' or 'looking stupid' it will improve. Some easy ways to start conversations with people is always by giving them a compliment. =)
first of all,there is nothing wrong with being shy.shy girls are the best.there is nothing phony about them.having said that,how about being a volunteer in your community.you will meet new people and do a good deed at the same time.or you can take martial arts.i used to be like you until i signed up for martial arts and it gave me alot of confidence.good luck to you.